the victims confronted the woman , kayla , on an episode of dr phil .
none of the women had met impostor despite regular texts and conversation .
kayla said she is gay and mormon , but thought she ` could n't have both ' , and used catfishing to ` figure out ' who she was , which she said was wrong .
it emerged kayla was a catfish when one of her victims became suspicious and looked further into who she was talking with .